Finally getting it after three months...

[jp787]

I was also deheartned by the low percentage of Separations that end up reconciling. But as I was told by my counselor, its because so many people a)aren't willing to make the changes to saving it with their wife and b)if they do, that can't make them consistent. She said of the husbands that she has worked with, those who truly change have great success reconciling with their wives. Howeverm if another man is involved, then all bets are off

This was hopeful until the last sentence...