I hear him talking and the thing is for me, his affection for her has taken a part of his heart that was rightfully mine. Just a month ago he was telling her he didn't love me, wanted her. Now what has changed. He says they changed when my son had his emotional outburst, although my h was still distant.
When I became distant then he starts to pick up his head and take notice. There is still resistance from him in giving out facts about talking to ow. If I say anything derogatory about her he doesn't like it. I just feel that the emotional attachment is still there. He denies it but I don't believe him. He wants me to get over what he said a month ago that's in the past. Well I did forgive twice. I can't get over this. Last month I told him he was cold and I believed he was contacting ow. He Said I was wrong and I had to stop this. I was not wrong, obsessed or crazy. I brought this up. He's more afraid of my reaction so he has to call up ow and tell her things that are none of her business. He let her in. He calls it bad judgment. I call it betrayal. He said he can't afford to move out. Spent a lot on a trip and bills. My overall feeling is not positive it feels like a replay and ill get burned again.
