J, one difference I do see between our sitch's is that your W says she is not lonely. My W says she is terribly lonely. Says she does not know if she is lonely for me or lonely for affection in general. How about that for a statement? I can't interpret half of what she says or does so I should stop trying. Thanks for the input and allowing me to vent.
My W also says she is so, so happy. She goes to great lengths to tell me every time we talk and with her friends. One friend of hers told me when they went out for coffee, W said it over and over again and was crying a little. Her friend finally pointed out that truly happy people don't say it all the time or while crying in public like that. I don't think they have spoken about much since. I sincerely think she does feel happy!!, sometimes at least. I also think it's a defense mechanism and that creepy, anxious grin she developed since BD is not natural to her and soon it will fade. Time will tell. J.
Me42 W41 D10,D15 T25 M23 LYBNILWY 09/12 OEA 08/12(?)-ended? 01/13 Sep 01/13 I file 04/13 1rst D hearing 06/13 Currently in mediation
