Thank you Starsky,
I needed to know that what I was asking wasn't far fetched. I reread online articles about building trust and gave me the book "After the AFfair" because I know I'm not making this stuff up as I go along.

However, I'm really struggling pulling back. This is the hardest part for me. It's always been struggling with this since Day 1.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017