It messes with my PMA and detachment. It reminds me that I'm still on the roller coaster. I say to myself, "jzoom, why do you care?" and I can't answer my own question.

My friend was anxious about having to face my ex & OM so I told her that she could either try talking to my ex in private (but that it probably wouldn't do any good), could simply hide and ignore, or could text back and say that there was no reason to stop and talk b/c there was nothing to talk about.

Basically, I had told my friend that if she didn't support my exes decisions and doesn't like OM than she needs to detach herself b/c my ex is under the impression that she has full support from my friend.

Later on in the night I texted my friend and just said I don't want details but I hope everything was calm and smooth for you tonight. She told me that without giving me details she just told my ex not to stop by and she didn't

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln