H is asking me yet again to give him another chance but the conversation is still a repeat of before. What will change. If he talked to the ow because he felt she was the only one who would listen what's going to change the next time he can't talk to me? She still works in the building 2 miles down. Still doesn't think his talking to her on private phone is betrayal. I heard him tell her in jan that he wanted her, not me. Won't admit it says the same old stuff he said when I first caught him. I told him I'm through. Either he or I can go. Doesnt want to leave or for me to go and not throw away 23 years of marriage. I told him he should have thought about that before contacting her yet again. Says I'm being too hard. How can I trust him ever again?
