Some days just plain suck. When I move right to the future, I really try to focus in the moment. Feel sad,but look at reality. You aren't D yet. Don't know if that helps, but it usually puts me up.
It does help thank you. Actually it's the one thing that gave me hope - the fact that she had started divorce proceedings to get it all done ASAP and now she just wants to wait 2 years.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013