No I don't think that's relevant. The guy lives out of state and is married. He told my wife first that he was having issues with his wife. So my wife was telling him that he needed to go to counseling before it ruins their marriage. The part thar made me mad was the part about 'I am telling all my married friends who have any marital issues that they should go to counseling. It would have saved my narriage'.
There is not a chance in hell that W gets into another situation with this gutmy or any other Guy. I know how she is and that's not how she is.
We just spent another evening together and she was being very sweet to me. What stands between a recincilluation between us now is OM. If that relationship ends I am certain we begin to repair the damage.
Another one of those gut feelings. I think we all know our spouses well. This is her little failing fantasy and then I am quite certain she will be done with tgmhis fantasy stuff.
Then I'm afraid I (nor anyone else here) can help you. It would probably be best just to continue with your DB coach.
