Still in separate rooms. Wife won't even allow me to touch her.

Whenever I say something like "I can understand how you would feel that way", she comes back with "that's a textbook answer". She is very cynical and doesn't buy into this DB approach. I almost feel like everything that I have been told to try such as dress more nicely, go out and get a life, pull back, and validate has done nothing to help at all.

She told me today that she has always been a person to make a decision and then not look back. Not very encouraging.