Valentine's day came and went. Yeah, it's commercial, but everybody does it, so that's why we all make it into something more than it really needs to be. It IS just another day.
Waited to see if my wife would give me a card. She did. Nothing with any feeling to it. Very platonic. I gave her my card. Did nothing else. My card said something about love and not always doing a great job of expressing it. Any damage done? Who knows. I'm getting tired of all this tip toeing around.