Isn't it crazy the same stories you hear on here from people? You mentioned that she accused you of being so mean? At BD for me, my W brought up things that happened in high school. High School!! Are you kidding me! I started thinking tonight after my wife stormed off upstairs because D4 was stressing her out, that I do feel sorry for her. She is so unhappy with everything. Her relationship with the kids is iffy. She is a great mother but she has no patience with them anymore. It is all very sad. I honestly believe that if she did leave she would still not be happy. There is much more going on than her just being unhappy with me.

J, one difference I do see between our sitch's is that your W says she is not lonely. My W says she is terribly lonely. Says she does not know if she is lonely for me or lonely for affection in general. How about that for a statement? I can't interpret half of what she says or does so I should stop trying. Thanks for the input and allowing me to vent.


M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.