It might, maybe, who knows have the effect of her missing you, and getting curious, but don't count on it at all. As a recovering fixer, this will be maybe the most difficult thing to do, I can tell you, but it is essential for YOU so YOU have time, space to work on you. you do it as much, or as little as you need or the situation seems to warrant. Do what works, and give any changes TIME to cook (and it is a slow cook BBQ) and see if there is any improvement.
Since I have an in-house mlc'er and kids, I could only go "dim"...don't initiate contact, don't offer to help, etc...I let my W come to me if she wanted/needed anything, and then I was there present 100%. But otherwise, I got on with my own agenda, self-improvement, GAL and such. I got a lot out of my time, so did my kids And still do.
Going dark is for YOU, so what are you going to do for YOU?
Welcome to crazyland, buckle up, get yourself back first, then worry about W cuz this mlc is coming from somewhere long before you were with her....
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
And still do.