Wow, Dawn. He almost sounds like a kid who doesn't want to do something, but can't tell his friends no. Instead he makes his mom forbid him from going so he has an excuse.

And then asking you to let this woman stay in your house? At least he was willing to accept that you said no.

I'm sure you're going to be worried about what he might do, but he is a grown man (even if he's not acting like it) and I think even he knows it's not a good idea to go over there.

Stay strong and put yourself and your family first. Hopefully your H will get this out of his system and commit to his family soon.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13