Is it me? Or what? My husband and I talked again and he lied and said the tracphone was for work. I told him I am through because he betrayed me yet a third time by talking to her. He finally said "she is my friend and because I can't talk to you, I talked to her" WHAT! I said are you blaming me? H said no but you're twisting my words. You are judge and jury and I said How? he said because I am not taking any blame for our marriage problems. I told him I was sorry and I made changes and he said "do you think that makes up for the two years of problems?" I said "do you hear yourself?" He's mad because I watched his every move since he's betrayed me. He told me talking to her was not wrong, then he said maybe it was wrong, then he said it was wrong. I told h I did listen to him talk back in the summer. I begged him for affection and was rebuffed. He said you know why? Cuz he was numb. But he wasn't numb about her. H is defending his actions. Putting blame on me and then saying he's not blaming me. This conversation was unreal. He's trying to say that I'm the one who's nuts . I told him several times its over and he says no it's not. You don't know what you're talking about. There's nothing between us. She's my friend. I told him she's lying behind her boyfriends back by talking to h. And he defends her! Anyway while we were talking he got a text from his buddy because they were going out for a drink and he's reading the damn text while I'm talking. So finally because I am upset that he's doing this crap and defending himself, he said I got him all upset and he's goin out to get a drink. I think he's off his rocker and he says see? I can't talk to you.
