Gonna be different now, (butterfly in hurricane).

[Big Bruce]

result of the hearing

Hello,
So, I get Tuesdays and Thursdays from 5h30 to 7h45, and every other week Saturday from 9h to 3pm
After two months the Saturday time gets transformed into Friday evening to Saturday 3pm
and after two months it gets transformed into Friday evening to sunday morning. every other week.

But, she got child support, spousal support, alimony, child care. Which amounts to half of my salary ! Which means she earns more than me now. I'm so mad.
I pay my rent, and the bills and more or less that's it, I can't put money aside, nevermind pay a mortgage or go on vacation..

And oh, it's retroactive, I have to use my savings, and borrow money to pay what I owe. I'm broke.

If I was in france I wouldn't have to pay a dime, but then I wouldn't see my son. So, it's not an option either.

First reactions from you? Fair, not fair, to be expected?
What do I do? Put a smile on while giving her the checks?

Tell her that now we have to ccoperate for the good of S, or is that a form of pursuing?

I have so many questions, I'm very confused, please help me.
(or pray for me..)

Thank you,
Bruce