I have not been able to update because we took a family ski vacation this past week. The vacation was planned and partially paid for before we even left.
We all enjoyed our vacation. This was a 180 for me because usually I worry about money, and this time around I didn't. We went to a top-notch but very expensive resort and did everything.
I don't think the vacation changed my wife's mind. She is still confused and she is not making any moves. She is just biding time. Maybe she is waiting for something to happen.
On the good front, the OM that she is "friends" with has a girlfriend. On the bad front, she continues to contact this OM. We have a single cell phone account with two phones, and last week he texted her and she replied.