I now also go to the gym 4 times/week versus the 2 times/week that I used to go.
I have to ask, how do you think your W interprets it that you told her she can only go twice a week, but you're going four times a week? I really don't think the frequency that she goes to the gym is what's wrong with your M. She obviously enjoys it and if you "punish" her by limiting the activity she enjoys then I have a feeling it's going to backfire.[/quote]
The difference is I go during my lunch hour so it takes away no family time, whereas she went from 6pm - 8:30pm, which meant I was almost a single dad taking care of my 3 girls each evening (they go to bed at around 8pm).
