One big adamant "NO!" to reconcile. I did not bring it up, she just felt the need to remind me when I asked where she was taking the kids away for a couple days and she refuses to tell me and I reminded her I have a right to know. Says the kids bring up R to her especially d10 and thinks I put them up to it. I have honestly not. D10 asks me and I console her and tell her that we are moving on. She is refusing to accept it. Whatever they say to her is from them, not me. W does not believe that. She still won't update me on counselling for the kids.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.