Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

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The more anxious you are about Sunday the harder it will be and that kind of anxiety or tension they spot like a red flag. If you can work out first and take the edge off, it might be helpful.

I've made sure not to direct blame.

That's great. I was not referring to direct blame though. In looking back I can see where I said things were taken as indirect blame. Was some of it his own guilt and shame? Sure. I could have been more aware though. Just sayin.

HUGS

Yes you're right thank you... Truth s though its impossible not to think about it.

But I've been here a few times - she goes away to "think" about things but the outcome is always the same "can't come back" "don't love you" etc no reason to believe its going to be any different this time.