2,
I understand that you and w share a hotel room NOW.. but that WILL change once the Divorce is final? You realize that right?

The same thing goes for vacation. If you divorce, you won't be taking your w.

Why not just plan a vacation with your sons?

If she is truly giving you no feedback and you are telling her that you need to move on.. back it up with actions.

It's been 17 months.. don't you think it's time?

M(f): 43
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.