Well as I mentioned before, it's the trust. I believe I'm being played. I ignored him for 2 weeks then boom wants to try? I will always have this mistrust. I wonder if she rejected him. Then the disrespect in the way I'm treated and being stingy with money re certain repairs when he spends more than that to eat out sometimes. I look onto his face and find he can lie with no prob. All these things go thru my mind. He can't stay with me. I want him to get out. I have to think more about what I need to be happy. It's not just the affair but the whole marriage. I guess neither one of us was happy but he was more of a loner. Doing his own thing many times. Felt like he didn't like being around us.maybe it was boring for him.
