Time and tide...

[2thepoint]

I have a little dilemma and need some perspective:

Spring break is coming up and I'm considering a family vacation, (W and my 2 boys). Should I do it?

Here's a little context. My 2 sons play competitive sports which sometimes requires overnight travel. Even though my W and I are separated, we still attend these games as a family. When sharing a hotel room, we will do 2 queen beds with W in one and I'm in the other.

I recently asked my W about the big "us" and she said her feelings hadn't changed (17 months later) though she hasn't filed for D. I told her I need to stop being her fall back, go-to guy for things if she wasn't willing to work on the M. Our R in all other aspects is tons better than BD. I'm am making moves now to get my life a little more organized, get my own apartment instead of sharing a place with a roommate, etc. In essence, I'm moving on.

Considering all of this, and the fact that I have ZERO expectations about anything R related, is there any down side to this family spring break vacation? Upside?

I appreciate the feedback.