Very true. Though making a happy home is by far the best. Ain't going to happen it looks like by her choice so gotta be best dad possible. Her anger and resentment is too much. Still blames me for everything. Even this morning. Makes up BS.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.