I am so tired of being accused of 'dating'. H had D last night and when he picked her up asked if I was going out for an adult evening. I just said yes without elaborating. He did offer to come pick me up if I needed a ride, which was nice of him.

So I'm having dinner and drinks - with my cousins and their bf/gf's - that's it! H texts me about a bday party today and I guess I didn't answer fast enough - he writes to let him know when I can take a date from my date. Geez. I still wear my ring - I am well aware that I am married. Maybe he should worry about himself.

Still feel I need to lay some things out for him - about me working on myself and giving him space. While I don't think I need to lay out my plans for him all of the time, I don't want him to think I am dating and that it is ok for him to at all.