The MLCer seems to think that 'in love' is something that just happens. Maybe lightening will strike and I'll be back 'in love.' In much the same way that we hope this journey will be easy and they'll come to their senses, they hope falling back in love or being happy will be easy too. Right now we have to do the work for both of us.
I guess it's really an honor that they think we are responsible for their misery. No one could cause them this much pain unless they (we) were closer to them than anyone else in the world.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later