The only thing left is for me to accept him as he is. That's where I run into trouble. His biggest complaint about me has always been that I don't truly love him for who he is and that I've always wanted him to be different. Unfortunately, I sometimes think there is lots of truth to his complaints.

Just wanted to pull this out and let it stand alone.

You can't change him and shouldn't try.

What have you changed in you, Wendylon?

I remember early on you having problems with his drinking and we talked about AlAnon...did you go? Was it helpful?

What are your goals for you?

What are yo doing for you?

How are you growing, changing?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss