Yea, the day before BD I would have said it was a deal breaker. Much less a confession of multiple PAs. Honestly, it's the one that turned into an EA too that kills me the most.

Plus, your H is saying it's over if, and he doesn't really know. My H was set on a D. Now he's not at all. You just never know. They are totally confused.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D