A) I get the kid thing Turtle, trust me. You know I know exactly why;). It is dark and selfish but I get it and I know you recognize it too. But you will enjoy the to e, trust me, it will make you a better mom.
By all means go see Hs space, I feel that is very valid.
PA was not deal breaker for me,either. Thought it would be...not so much.
