That's my H as well. When I ask him to leave he says I'm "pushing him". Making him make up his mind before he's ready. Never mind that I'm ready - completely irrelevant.
Oh ha ha... getting on that crazy train...
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.