Alright. Seriously.

I DID NOT ENTER H'S OFFICE TO SNOOP.

I needed to print something and his comp is the only one hooked up to the printer. And he left open, ON THE SCREEN, a letter to his Dad explaining how he wants to come live with them.

His Dad responded by saying he thought that might send a wrong message to our children, about not taking care of them.

I am not surprised by H's desire.

But seeing it in print... somehow just took my breath away.

One way or the other, can't this just resolve?


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.