reforce on me

[littleGTO]

I DO trust their dad with them. He has also been a better dad since he's moved out than he'd been in a long time. BUT, it also feels like he "clocks in and clocks out." In other words it seems as though he puts in quality time knowing he only has to do it for a set amount of time.

My fear of kids going to H's apartment is selfish. I don't want to give them up to him AT ALL. I feel like he gave that up when he moved out. But, the truth is he didn't, he just gave up on us.

I want them to have a good R with their dad, so I know I need to let them be with him out of the house and be okay with it (more than just an outing, as he would often do this in the past).

I can do this...I know I can!

As far is a PA a deal breaker? Well, I used to think it definitely was. NOw I'm not 100%, but the answer is maybe it is. And, I do think he will file for D if it turns physical. We'll see.