My L is a good guy. I still pray he will get the best for me and my girls. He was referred to me. I met with 5 L's before I retained him. Only 3 talked about reconciling and two did not even mention it. They are required here to promote it. He can be tough but believes in family. Has seen the crap and destruction D brings but also won't be pushed around.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.