What are you afraid might happen if they stay with their Dad? Did you trust them with him before?
I knew someone would pipe up that it doesn't matter WHY/IF H is in a PA now or not. But it does to me.
Does that mean a PA is a deal breaker for you ?
Yea, what labug said.
Also, I meant just take it that he hasnt made it a PA yet and go from there. None of us will know the real reason why he hasn't.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D