Originally Posted By: labug
What are you afraid might happen if they stay with their Dad? Did you trust them with him before?

I knew someone would pipe up that it doesn't matter WHY/IF H is in a PA now or not. But it does to me.

Does that mean a PA is a deal breaker for you ?


Yea, what labug said.

Also, I meant just take it that he hasnt made it a PA yet and go from there. None of us will know the real reason why he hasn't.


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D