Thank you all for the advice and support. I had a fun day on the field trip with S6. W took both boys to a movie after we got back home. I didn't go as I thought it would be good for her to have them by herself for awhile. Broke my heart to see them go without me.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later