I just noticed that the success are less than 10% than the D rate from looking at the threads and more successes are H coming back... I am depressed.
Not even sure what this^^ is supposed to mean. "Less than 10% than the D rate"... of whom/what?
"and more successes are h coming back", I think you mean more h's return, than women. Which you decided is about you? Well, in general, yes women don't return as often. That's b/c women tend to wait longer before leaving, so there's is LESS motivation left in them, which is how they left...i.e., they left when there was nothing left in their tank. Hence less looking back and returning. However,
Your w comes around for intimacy 2 x a week. That's more than some marrieds around here have it.
Stop thinking negatively.
You started with a 50/50 chance of divorce the day you married, but now you are awake.
The more you think of failure, the more you'll fulfill that expectation. Don't.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
