I read all these threads where one spouse makes mistake(s) and the other one is willing to work on the marriage. I make one mistake in 20 years of being in a lonely marriage and my H leaves and hasn't looked back...
Doesn't seem fair when I'm willing to do anything to make it work..." AngieG, I fully get this feeling as well. Yes I haven't been the best of husbands, based on our work sitch etc for the last 2 years, I have probably been miserable for the W to have to see and put up with every day. While I am working on my GAL and 180's, it is still a thought in the back of my mind always about why she didn't talk to me about how she was feeling, why she didn't want to go to MC, why, why, why? I still love her very much (even tearing up now), but I also wonder if and how can I live with this new person (based on her attitude now). And like you AngieG, I still will probably always wonder why after 23 years of marriage can the person you think you know so well just up and leave. I just have to get on with my life. With or without her.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
