Well, I don't want to dwell on this...but when she opens up a checking account with OM I think that's a pretty clear indication that the door is shut and deadbolted.
She sounds pretty flaky to me, it sure didn't take her long to shack up with someone else, and now a joint checking account? Wow. And yet she still has most of her crap at your house. Not exactly a model of stability and smart choices.
Yes, actually helps me see that my distancing myself from her is a good thing. I'm glad I didn't get wrapped up in a joint account. IF she ever wants me back she will have to chase me and prove to me that things will be different and I will have boundaries I discuss with her before moving to reconcilliation. Doubt this is ever going to happen though.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
How long did you two date? How long did it take for you guys to move in?
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
Baby just turned one on this month, oldest turned 9, and middle turns 7 in April. Got together in May of last year and she moved in June b/c of some circumstances outside of her control...and I thought it was a good idea at the time.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
Earlier today I'm texting with new friends/girls and then I get a group text from the ex that she has a new phone number. I don't respond, no need but then I start wondering if she let me know b/c it's really a case of "don't believe anything they say and only half of what you see".
But then just a little bit ago, mutual friend who I have asked not to give me info, tells me she got the text too along with a text about how ex and OM are going out to dinner and a movie and then stopping by to see her. I told my friend again that I don't want to hear about it b/c it messes with my head and that if she is really as upset as she says she is she needs to go dark on my ex.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
