She is in a dark place Bug. I do think a lot of it is intentional, some she does not realize what she says or does or how it sounds or affects the kids. She is coming apart at the seams. It is so sad to see and balance what I need to do for me and the girls. I used to take it much more personally, but less so now. It hurts less but frustrates even more. Very strange. Me with the RE Agent today and we lowered the price of the house. It is still too high but it is W's price again. I just am going along with it. My L has now for the 3rd time in as many months tried to schedule a 4 way meeting to settle everything and they still not have responded to setting it up. It would not be her L as they would want to get it done, it would be my W that is delaying that process. They have yet to initiate court as they threatened 2 weeks ago but who knows that may come anyway. My L thinks that it won't look good on them to a judge that we have extended offers 3 x to meet with them and they delay. I suspect W is buying time to make another play of some kind. I start a new job on Tuesday and I will need my full focus. It is a challenging job and will need time and focus.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
