Well, I don't want to dwell on this...but when she opens up a checking account with OM I think that's a pretty clear indication that the door is shut and deadbolted.
She sounds pretty flaky to me, it sure didn't take her long to shack up with someone else, and now a joint checking account? Wow. And yet she still has most of her crap at your house. Not exactly a model of stability and smart choices.
Yes, actually helps me see that my distancing myself from her is a good thing. I'm glad I didn't get wrapped up in a joint account. IF she ever wants me back she will have to chase me and prove to me that things will be different and I will have boundaries I discuss with her before moving to reconcilliation. Doubt this is ever going to happen though.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
