STOP looking at her phone!!!! I did the same stuff. But it will only make you crazy. If you guys start working on M, then you can discuss transparency. But right now, you can't, so don't look! You won't figure out if you can ever trust her right now, so do t try. I ask myself that, and just remind myself that right now I dont. That's all I know.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D