Just popping in with a question

[MrBond]

You are right in that she wants to clear her conscience. This is what's going to happen next. After awhile when you don't do anything to push the D, she's going to get angry at you. She's going to accuse you of things that you never even heard of before. She's going to treat you like the devil himself.

BUT you don't change your strategy. Don't let her actions (no matter how hurtful) affect you. You continue to live your life and GAL. That phase will pass as well.

Think of it like the stages of death. She's going through bargaining with you. Then it's going to be anger, then sadness. The ironic thing will be that when she finally starts accepting the fact that she contributed to the demise of your R, she's going to regret not doing anything to heal it.