Wife spent the night, we had a good time. I looked at her phone when she got in shower... I know. Conversation with her sister: W misses OM she had EA with A LOT!, she said he told her that he tried to find her 10 years ago, which makes W want him even more. Wife mentioned she didn't realize how hard she had fallen for him (recently during EA). W sister said that my W now knew she had options, that he was cute and sweet that there are a lot of hot sweet guys out there with out our history. OM has wife and child, so he can divorce and be with W, or they can have A. My fear is that if W and myself get back together, she will be holding onto OM as something great and perfect that she cant have. So W has strong feelings for OM and may love him. W sister is showing her the way out the door. I know I shouldn't have looked, but I did. I need to focus on me and be there best me I can be, but dang. How will I ever know to trust W? Don't worry about that until I need to?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
