Just popping in with a question

[JBolt]

Guilt is a painful feeling. My W has said things like this several times, and I'm only 4 months into this. She says how she loves me and doesn't want to see me hurting anymore, so I should D her and get on with my life. She really wants me to do all the heavy lifting as far as D is concerned. Of course, take care of her mess as usual and assuage her guilt by seeming to agree to all this craziness by filing for D myself. She's tried several times to encourage me seeing other people. She did ask to talk to me yesterday and seemed more determined, desperate really, to move on the D. I said I would think about it. 2-3 weeks ago it was, we don't have to decide anything yet, there is plenty of time. She really does seem mentally ill.
J.