Today he is back to talking about looking for somewhere else to live (he's still at his parents). I just said if that's what you need to do, just know that if will be even more of a financial strain. He said he is aware (where I wanted to reply no, really you aren't, because I handle all the bills). He then said 'gotta do something, can't live there forever' I have not replied. We all know what I really want to reply - uh, man up and come home. But anyway. I can't put what I really want to say here!
We will be poor if he needs to pay rent. I can afford the house we live in on my own - provided he takes his car payment (which makes me nervous since my name is on it) Sometimes I do just want to quit having his check come into our account and let him figure it all out on his own. But without filing he would not be required to pay child support. And I think everything needs to stay in place until decisions are made.
I also feel he is fishing for reactions again. He's talked about this a few times.
