I think I was guilty of the classic problem of reading too much into things.
Oh EXPECTATIONS.
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
I had to move on to save myself.
I think you are confusing moving FORWARD with moving on. If you were moving on then you would not say this
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
I think what you're asking is if I'm to the point (or close to it) of not wanting to reconcile no matter what. To be honest I'm not consistent on that, some days I think I'm done and other days I don't think that.
My point is you need to move forward, your dating or trying another relationship is doomed if you are moving on before you figure out why you are not consistant in your thinking.
If you want to date, get divorced and date. I find nothing wrong with that. I do find dating while you are still married to be totally wrong.
I understand that you dont like hearing hard issues. Food for thought.
