Are you over functioning? This is could be just as simple as pulling back a little ...... Can you start thinking about yourself as a present or a gift for your husband, and not the other way around? Let him miss the caring and hugs from you.
Thanks BrightFuture. I am sure you are right. I am not convinced that he would notice but I will try doing something different and I will report back !! I need to get some other passions in my life rather than DH and family. I am trying to give more attention to my work and other things...I know this is the answer just how to get that passion back. I feel as if I have put it all aside to be a mother and wife for so long. But I will do it, and I will start right now. Thank you all
Me 49y H 52y T23 y M17 y ??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker children 8-12