I just noticed that the success are less than 10% than the D rate from looking at the threads and more successes are H coming back... I am depressed.
I've read stuff going back years on these forums. Often people just quit posting mid-way through their sitch, so you don't really know how things ended up. Another strange thing is some people will come back months or even years later and post that they've been in piecing for some time, but they didn't want to post about it because they were afraid they'd jinx it. So I don't think you can get an accurate read on success percentages based on the threads here, but it does seem that more often than not it doesn't work out in the end. But that doesn't mean you can't beat the odds.
Early on I too was depressed about the lack of success stories and happy endings, but as time goes on you become less focused on that and more focused on getting your life back on track with or without your spouse. That's why we push GAL so much here, it's the key to recovering and being content with your life no matter what happens.
