I am glad you posted! I have been reading through your old threads - I am a "non-married" and was searching out those people who were also going through the same thing just trying to decide whether or not I belonged here.
I had to laugh, though when you said in a post I recently read that an Aries girl would have booted him out the door. Apparently not this Aries girl!
Anyway Ali, I wanted to say that your posts and all of the great people you attracted to your thread have been very helpful to me. You were so honest with your fears and anxieties. All feelings I have but just do not express very well.