Gonna be different now, (butterfly in hurricane).

[movingon-1968]

I'm pretty new on here and have been hesitant to comment on other people's issues.

I've read thru this thread several times with disbelief; just wow sums it up pretty good.

I think 25 is 100% correct in her evaluation of the sitch.

Bruce, you need to take your attention off of what you WANT to happen with your wife because, quite simply, it's not GOING to happen. At least not in a time frame that will make you happy.

Just stop thinking you can pursue her WHILE battling in court.

This is VERY GOOD ADVICE that you need to listen to. At best you'll look pathetic, at worse you'll look like a stalker and get even more legal action that will not be in your favor. I've seen this happen and it never has a good outcome.

You need to focus on changing the things about yourself you have identified as contributing to the problems in your M; you need to focus on your R with your son. Those are the only two things you have any control over.