GTO, I just meant that you don't get a ton of time away from the kids. Even at night, it just doesn't feel the same to me. I have that to..although I still pass out on the couch at like 9 these days! I'm hoping the 2 ndctrimester energy kicks in soon some nights I make it 11. I relate to you alot, and just think you'd benefit from some downtime
My H would do the same thing if he asked and I withheld what I was doing. Now I just say I have plans, if he asks I tell him.
Who knows why your H hasn't PA. We won't figure it out. I say just take it at face value & keep doing what you are. Working on you.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
some nights I make it 11. I relate to you alot, and just think you'd benefit from some downtime 
